A Whole New World

BIG NEWS!!!  We have moved to Cortland, New York!  Our new house has a small back yard, but it's our back yard.  So one of the first things I started looking for was a sturdy...like industrial strength...outdoor trampoline.  I found one that had 5 star reviews with pictures of large trees falling on it and the trampoline remaining undamaged.  So I got it and it only took a few hours to put together.  It was worth the cost right away.  Jumping, laughing, jumping, jumping, laughing.  Sometimes Wally gets hot and throws his shirt over the sides...


We've now spent many hours having great fun on our trampoline.  There are few things more joyful than jumping hand in hand with both Wally and Leo smiling and laughing.  With the days getting shorter, I decided we needed lights so that evening jumping could be possible.  It's a party just for Wally. :)


Wally and Leo both love it so much that we even got them special trampoline slippers so that their feet don't get so cold on cooler fall days.  As winter approaches we may have fewer days on the trampoline but I think that it has been the best purchase I've ever made as far as how much it has improved the quality of life for my autistic sons.  I'd highly recommend it to any other autism dads out there. 

It's hard to beat just laying down and staring at the sky on your own trampoline.



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